Tweens and Social Media

I originally thought my daughter was a bit odd, she isn’t interested in social media AT ALL.  I mean nothing, she doesn’t want a Facebook account, not interested in Instagram, mention Twitter and she’s out of the room.

To be honest she’s not even that interested in Facetime or iMessage. In her eyes they are a necessary evil she needs on her iPad, so she can message me for more food when she’s in another room or to talk to her grandparents. But mostly for me to get her food!. I had a quick look and my nieces and nephew’s also don’t really seem to use Facebook that much and neither do my cousin’s kids – all of whom range between 11 and 23.

They, it seems are not alone. I was reading a report this week that tweens and early teens are now rejecting some ‘traditional’ social media like Facebook and are now using apps like Snapchat because they (in theory) have more security and anonymity.

The other shift is for private accounts or accounts with false names to protect their privacy.  I think that’s an excellent idea, I’d have hated all my young adult mistakes scattered across the internet forever more – my 25th Birthday especially should never, ever, see the light of day!

It’s great they are thinking into the future, because once it’s out there, it’s out there. Interestingly L banned me from putting her name on here when she was about six because she didn’t want to be ‘Googleable’.

Now she’s 12 all she has a gaming name that is a made up name so she’s untraceable and unknown to those at school.  Maybe the message taught at school and at home to stay safe on the internet is really getting through?

How do your kids use social media are they heavy users or are they not into it?  Do they use it differently to you?  I would love to hear!.

 

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Review: Flamingo Gifts

I’m still slaving over making the office back into a bedroom. In the middle of the book sorting madness (SEVEN bin bags went to charity!) I had an email from Flamingo Gifts asking if I’d like to try any of the items on their website. Yes I would! I really needed a nice little present to cheer me up..this job is never ending.

Miss L has been having some horrible (hormone related) nightmares of late so I picked a Gummy Bear nightlight hoping that it’d be of help and it was super cute.

I chose for me a horses head squirrel feeder. We’ve only recently started getting squirrels in the garden so I thought it’d be nice to encourage them. Also because I am basically a small child, I thought it was hilarious!. But I’m sure they’ll enjoy the nuts I’ve put in there once they figure it out.  I gave the last choice to Miss L and she choose a hand held old school mirror. I swear she’s been watching way too many Disney movies of late. It’s now living on her desk, so it’s getting lots of use, I suspect trying to sneak on makeup is coming soon.

They turned up the next day and we’ve been enjoying them ever since. The Gummy Bear nightlight has been a god send, it’s the right level of light and not on all night as there is a little switch at the bottom you can flick to give it a timer,  so it’s not eating the batteries by being on all the time.  Also you squeeze it’s tummy to turn it on which just makes it way too much fun too use! 

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Gummy Bear Lamp

Thanks so much Flamingo Gifts! You brightened my week!  Go check them out some interesting gifts 🙂

**Full disclosure I relieved the above goods for this review**

 

 

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No Sew Roman Blind

I’m in the middle of converting the office from hell, back into a lovely sunny little bedroom.  Half the room is now painted but the new coat of paint made the window dressing look really tired and dated. So what to do?

It’s a small room so I wanted to keep a roman blind (no small children sleep in there, I wouldn’t use it in a child’s room) and this is mostly for show to sell the house. I popped on the internet and looked for new ones and they are really expensive for a large window £60 upwards and eBay had similar prices and I didn’t have that much in the budget.

So I took down the old one (ancient Ikea), had a look at it and apart from being dusty and sun bleached it wasn’t too bad as it still worked. I had a look on Pinterest and saw some posts about recovering roman blinds so I figured why not?  Here are the posts which helped me if you want a read : Chic Little House  Susie Harris Blog  Home Stories A to Z they’re all really useful and use different methods to the one I used.

Now I can’t sew, buttons, hems…yeah that’s about my limit!  So I measured the blind, bought some fabric from our local fabric shop and some wonder web iron on. Total £33.

What you’ll need:

Fabric – a bit too big to cover so you can make hems

Wonder web

An Iron.

Important note! **Make sure you have some thing under the fabric if you are ironing on something like a rug, I used a towel as I didn’t want to damage the rug. Some rugs would just have melted!**

How to:

This is a big blind 120cm wide and almost 2m long so this had to be done on the lounge floor.  So layout your old blind.

No sew Roman Blind

Take a while and lay the fabric on top and get the pattern straight – this will take a while and drive you a bit nuts. If you have any sense, pin it in so it stays in the right place (I didn’t do that and as a result it took twice as long to do!) trim it a little too big so you can make a nice hem.

Then get your first edge, cut some wonderweb and iron it in. This is the scary part!  I started at the top (cut a couple of holes for the hanging loops) and the worked my way down the sides and then bottom last.

No sew Roman Blind

I faffed about and followed the edges of the folds in the blind and wonder webbed them in too. I probably didn’t need to do that but I thought it might give a nicer finish.

No sew Roman Blind
laying out fabric

As you can see here I should have left more of an edge on the fabric and I *just* managed to pull it off! phew!  But edge it all the way round with a nice hot iron.

No sew Roman Blind

Once you’ve edged it all the way round pop it back up and you have a lovely new blind! I’m really pleased with how it’s worked, if it’s still hanging at the weekend, I’ll be impressed!.

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